Flavorful Mac and Cheese

Flavorful Mac and Cheese

I’m not a Mac and Cheese Lover, but my little people are! Therefore, I had to establish a recipe packed with flavor that would fill their bellies and hearts!

Prep Time: 10 minutes (quicker if you buy veggies diced already)

Cook Time: 35 minutes

Serves: 10 people

Kitchen Tools Needed: Boiler, sauce pot, cheese grater, wooden spoon, baking dish, measuring cups

 

Ingredients

  • 16 oz Pasta (Shells or elbow noodles)
  • 6 cups Chicken Broth (I used powder and added tablespoons to water.)
  • 1 stick Garlic and Herb Butter
  • 1 stick Salted Butter 
  • Salt (to taste)
  • White and Black Pepper (to taste)
  • ½ teaspoon Onion Powder
  • ½ teaspoon Garlic Powder
  • ½ Mustard powder
  • Eggs (optional)
  • 1 cup Heavy Whipping Cream
  • 1 cup Half and Half
  • ½ Parsley – fresh or dried
  • 4 oz Cream Cheese and 4 oz Velveeta Cheese —adds some amazing texture and moisture
  • 8 oz American & 8 oz Cheddar  Cheese—adds amazing flavor 
  • 8 oz each: Mozzarella, Colby Jack, and Mexican Blend Cheese 
  • Egg – This helps hold layers together (optional). I don’t use it unless I’m doubling the recipe.

Prep and Cooking Instructions:

Step 1

  • Preheat the oven to 350 degrees.
  • Place Garlic and herb Butter, chicken broth( I use powder form) water in a large stock pot (boiler), and bring to a boil. Add in pasta and cook to desired tenderness (don’t overcook).

Step 2

  • Add marinara, salt, pepper, sugar, parsley and all other spices to taste-I usually use at least a teaspoon of all; bring to a simmer, then cover and simmer for 5 minutes.

Step 3

  • Make the cheese filling – Combine half and half, heavy whipping cream, all the cheeses, and seasonings into a sauce pot to create cheese sauce.
  • Prep – Once pasta is done draining, put it back in the pot, add a stick of salted butter, and allow it to melt. Then add the cheese sauce mixture.

Step 4

  • Assemble – Pour mac and cheese into a baking dish and top with extra cheese. Sprinkle some smoked paprika and parsley on top.

Step 5

  • Bake –35 minutes if the egg is added. If the egg is not used, bake only until the cheese is melted and the crust is bubbly.
  • Rest – Let it rest for about 10 minutes before serving

Additional Cooking Tips: Don’t forget to add an additional abundance of LOVE!

Delicious Fried Chicken

Delicious Fried Chicken

Prep Time: 15 minutes 

Cook Time: 15 minutes per batch

Serves: 10 people

Ingredients

  • Preferred Chicken pieces  
  • 1 teaspoon smoked paprika
  • 1 teaspoon black pepper
  • Tony’s seasoning to taste.
  • Cayenne pepper 
  • 1 teaspoon Onion Powder
  • 1 teaspoon Garlic powder
  • 2 all-purpose flour or chicken fry ( I like House -Autry or Louisiana) 
  • 2 teaspoons cornstarch 
  • 2 teaspoons mustard
  • Frying oil or peanut oil
  • 1 ½ cups buttermilk
  • 2 lemon or a ½ cup of lemon juice

Prep and Cooking Instructions:

Step 1

Wash chicken in cold water and lemon juice, then pat dry with paper towels. If you prep it’s good to poke holes in chicken with a fork and soak chicken in buttermilk with a tablespoon of seasoning salt,½ teaspoon paprika, cayenne pepper, onion powder, and garlic powder,  overnight preferable. Nevertheless, 20 min is good if you’re in a rush. Cover the top tightly with plastic wrap and the juiciness that this add is incredibly good!

Step 2

Once you remove chicken from buttermilk, season lightly with Tony’s to your liking and the mustard. (PLEASE SEASON YOUR CHICKEN, PEOPLE!)

Step 3

Heat your frying oil in a deep fryer or dutch pot to 350 degrees! (I like to use enough oil to submerge the chicken so it cooks evenly.)

Step 4

If you are using all purpose flour, season it to taste with Tony’s, garlic powder, and onion powder. If you are substituting with Chicken Fry (which I love) you don’t need to season it. Add the cornstarch to whichever batter you choose.

Step 5

Coat your chicken with the flour base. Be sure  to coat well.

Step 6

Dust any excess flour and drop chicken into the frying pan once oil has reached 350 degrees.

Step 7

Cook until chicken is golden brown and internal temperature is 170. I like to say if you’re using a deep frying pan the chicken should begin to float and the chicken should be crispy!

Step 8

Remove chicken from the pan and use paper towels, sandwich bread, or a cooling rack to  soak up excess oil. Continue to repeat in batches until all your chicken has been fried!

Additional Cooking Tips: Don’t forget to add an additional abundance of LOVE!

 

 

Did Your Marriage Hit a Rough Patch? 7 Faith Resources To Help Get It Back Right

Did Your Marriage Hit a Rough Patch? 7 Faith Resources To Help Get It Back Right

Marriage gets tested receptively! There are sweet spots, rough spots, and times you want to be finished because you feel you must journey through things you didn’t sign up for. On the wedding day, no one knows just how good their good times will be or how daunting their worst times will be. The secret to being ready for whatever comes? Clinging to God in both times of joy and times of hardships.

One of the major resources my husband and I turn to first is marriage counseling—and I’m not talking about “this is our last straw, things are obviously terrible right now” counseling. I’m talking about benefiting from counseling even when things appear to be going well. We like to go to a counselor at least twice a year, even when no issues have surfaced. Just because you don’t hate each other and aren’t arguing all the time does not guarantee there aren’t any hidden issues. A trusted counselor could help you identify the things you’ve improperly learned to disregard or misplace.

When we’re not turning to counsel, there are a number of resources we keep in reach to both revive and enlighten us on a regular basis. Especially during times our marriage has hit a rough patch, these resources have proved their value in more ways than one. 

Here are 4 books and 3 podcasts to add to your resource list of places to find healthy marriage tips and lessons:

 

Books

 

(1) 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman: 

About The Book: Falling in love is easy. Staying in love—that’s the challenge. How can you keep your relationship fresh and growing amid the demands, conflicts, and just plain boredom of everyday life? In this book, you’ll discover the secret that has transformed millions of relationships worldwide. Whether your relationship is flourishing or failing, Dr. Gary Chapman’s proven approach to showing and receiving love will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your partner.

 

(2) Things I Wish I Knew Before We Got Married by Gary Chapman:

About The Book: “Most people spend far more time in preparation for their vocation than they do in preparation for marriage.” No wonder the divorce rate hovers around fifty percent. This is not a book simply to be read. It is a book to be experienced. The material lends itself to heart-felt discussions by dating or engaged couples. To jump-start the exchanges, each short chapter includes insightful “Talking it Over” questions and suggestions.

 

(3) Sacred Marriage: What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy? by Gary Thomas

About The Book: Within the pages of Sacred Marriage, Thomas invites you to see how God can use your relationship with your spouse as a discipline and a motivation to love God more and reflect more of the character of his Son. In addition to life-changing insights from Scripture, church history, and time-tested wisdom from Christian classics, you’ll find practical advice and techniques to make your marriage happier by becoming holier husbands and wives.

 

(4) Victory Over Darkness: Realize the Power of Your Identity in Christ by Neil T. Anderson

About The Book: It’s Jesus’s promise to you–the promise that you will live triumphantly. But what keeps you from really walking in the joy of the Lord? The powers of darkness attack us daily. But, as Dr. Neil Anderson shows in Victory Over the Darkness, you can have the power to conquer them by knowing who you are in Christ. This book spells out practical ways to experience Christian growth based on Christ’s promise.

 

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Podcasts

 

(1) Why or Why Not with The Watsons Podcast

Meet “Why” aka Benjamin and “Why Not” aka Kirsten as they discuss topics ranging from keeping the spark in your love story, to how to talk to your kids about race. Tune in to hear how they approached the crazy life of the NFL and mindfully apply biblical truth to their daily lives with their family. You will laugh and you may cry, but in the end their hope is that their different approaches to situations bless you and your family.

 

(2) 30 Minutes with the Perrys Podcast

30 Minutes with The Perrys is a podcast with a whole lot of truth given in a short amount of time. Preston Perry and Jackie Hill Perry bring their humor, honesty, and insight into conversations on everything from relationships, theology, politics, race, and parenting. You won’t be disappointed.

 

(3) Tony Evans’ Podcast

Dr. Tony Evans is one of the country’s most respected leaders in evangelical circles. As a pastor, teacher, author, and speaker, he serves the body of Christ through his unique ability to communicate complex theological truths through simple, yet profound, illustrations. While addressing the practical issues of today, Dr. Evans is known as a relevant expositor. His podcast features his latest sermons that have been a blessing to our lives individually and as a union.

Debunking 5 Myths About Homeschooling

Debunking 5 Myths About Homeschooling

Homeschooling has become an increasingly popular alternative to traditional schooling over the years. However, despite its growing popularity, there are still many myths and misconceptions surrounding homeschooling. Some people believe that homeschooled children lack social skills, while others assume that homeschooling is only for religious families.

In this blog, we will debunk 5 myths and provide a more accurate understanding of what homeschooling entails.

 

Myth #1: Homeschooled Kids Aren’t Exposed to as Much as Kids Within Traditional Education

The myth that homeschooled kids isn’t exposed to as much as kids within traditional education is not entirely accurate. While it’s true that homeschooled kids do not have the same exposure to traditional classroom settings, they are exposed to many other learning opportunities that can be just as valuable.

Homeschooled children often have the opportunity to explore a wide variety of interests and hobbies that they might not have time for in a traditional school setting. They can also have more flexibility in scheduling, which allows them to pursue extracurricular activities, internships, and volunteer work. Many homeschooling families also participate in co-ops, where children attend classes, workshops, and other group activities with other homeschoolers.

In addition, homeschooled children often have more one-on-one attention from their parents or tutors, which can lead to a deeper understanding of the material they are studying. They can also work at their own pace, which can lead to more in-depth exploration of topics that interest them.

Myth #2: Parents Must Have Experience in the Education System to Homeschool Their Kids

The myth that a parent must have experience in the education system to homeschool is simply not true. While having experience in education can certainly be helpful, it is not a requirement for homeschooling.

In fact, there are many resources available to parents who choose to homeschool their children, including curriculum guides, online courses, and support groups. I’ve used plenty throughout my journey. Many homeschooling parents also learn alongside their children, and there are many resources available to help parents educate themselves on the subjects they are teaching.

Furthermore, homeschooling is a highly individualized form of education, which means that parents can tailor their approach to their child’s specific needs and learning style. This can be especially beneficial for children who may struggle in traditional classroom settings, as homeschooling can provide a more personalized and supportive learning environment.

While some states may have specific requirements for homeschooling parents, such as completing a certain amount of education or training, these requirements are often minimal and can be easily met.

Myth #3: Homeschooled Kids Can’t Go to Ivy League Schools

The myth that homeschooled kids can’t go to Ivy League schools is simply not true. Homeschooled students have been accepted to Ivy League universities and other prestigious institutions of higher education.

In fact, homeschooled students often have unique experiences and accomplishments that can make them stand out in the college application process. They typically have more flexibility to pursue their interests and passions, which can lead to impressive extracurricular activities, volunteer work, and internships. And as I mentioned before, homeschooling can also provide a more personalized and individualized education, which can lead to a deeper understanding of subjects and higher levels of academic achievement.

While the college application process can be more challenging for homeschooled students, there are many resources available to help them navigate the process and demonstrate their qualifications. For example, some colleges and universities may require additional documentation, such as detailed transcripts and portfolios of work, but homeschooling parents can work with organizations that specialize in preparing these materials. With the right preparation and support, homeschooled students can achieve academic success and pursue their dreams. 

 

Myth #4: Homeschooled Kids Can’t Play School Sports

The myth that homeschooled kids can’t play school sports is not entirely accurate. While it is true that homeschooled children may not have access to school sports teams in the same way that traditional school students do, there are still many opportunities for homeschooled children to participate in sports.

In many states, homeschooled children are eligible to participate in public school sports and extracurricular activities. This is often referred to as “homeschool access” or “equal access” legislation. Some states may have specific requirements, such as proof of academic progress or certain eligibility requirements, but in general, homeschooled children can participate in school sports as long as they meet the same standards as traditional school students.

In addition, there are many other options for homeschooled children who want to participate in sports. Homeschooling organizations, community sports leagues, and private clubs often offer sports programs and teams for homeschooled children. These programs can provide opportunities for homeschooled children to socialize, compete, and develop their athletic skills.

Myth #5: Homeschool Kids Are Socially Awkward

The myth that homeschooled kids are socially awkward is simply not true. While there may be some homeschooled children who struggle with social skills, there is no evidence to suggest that homeschooling inherently leads to social awkwardness. In fact, my kids are amazing in social settings.

There are many opportunities for homeschooled children to socialize and develop strong social skills. Homeschooling parents often organize social activities and field trips for their children, and there are many homeschooling support groups and co-ops that offer regular opportunities for social interaction.

Furthermore, homeschooled children often have more flexibility in their schedules, which allows them to participate in a wide range of extracurricular activities, volunteer work, and internships. These experiences can provide valuable opportunities for socialization and help homeschooled children develop strong interpersonal skills.

It is worth noting that social awkwardness is not limited to homeschooled children. Children in traditional school settings can also struggle with social skills, and there are many factors that can contribute to social difficulties, such as personality traits, developmental differences, and life experiences

Whether you are a parent considering homeschooling for your child or simply interested in learning more about this educational option, I wrote this blog to help provide valuable insights and information. I hope it helps guide you in the right direction for YOU.

 

 

God’s Timing & Extending Grace to Yourself

God’s Timing & Extending Grace to Yourself

The start of a new season can be a time filled with pressure to become the best version of yourself. The resolutions you made at the beginning of last year (or the top of this year) either happened or did not. Whether you accomplished all of your goals or didn’t quite meet them, feeling constant pressure to change and improve can be overwhelming. You have to give yourself grace and remember to trust God’s timing. Don’t be too hard on yourself.

Diamonds form under pressure—we’ve heard this fact our entire lives. However, just because we didn’t accomplish our full to-do list this year doesn’t mean that we are anything less than a diamond. In God’s timing, we will all flourish into the diamonds He’s calling us to be. It’s essential that we wait patiently on Him and His timing to shape and mold us individually into the diamond He needs us to be.

“Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the LORD’s purpose that prevails” (Proverbs 19:21). 

We can do amazing things that are not essentially God’s things.

So rest knowing that just because you didn’t check all the boxes doesn’t mean you’re a failure. Maybe some of those things weren’t in proper alignment. You must have faith that the things you thought you needed may not have been right for you at that moment. God has a plan, and oftentimes, we don’t understand it at first. 

I encourage you to take every goal and plan you have before the throne and ask God to order your steps. Ask Him to empty you and fill you with Him. He must increase, but we must decrease.

Being filled with God’s grace will help guide you on your path. Be comfortable submitting your to-do list to Him, but also be comfortable changing it if that’s not His will. Trust that He knows what you need and be open to listening to His calling. Be patient waiting on Him… sometimes His timing is not ours! 

Embrace the fresh start that is NOW. Hold God close and trust in His plan.